conflict in everyday life
The aspect in which immigrant women experience the most cultural differences from Korea and associated difficulties is the economic aspect. The reason for their decision to come to Korea is basically because Korea is wealthier economically and this can be seen as an acknowledgment that Korea is wealthier than their country economically. Even, in reality, it has been revealed that most immigrant people think that Korea is an easier place to earn money than their country.
My family and friends were all very happy when I said that I would go to Korea because Korea is richer and has a better image than China. But when I came here, it was hard to live. Although they make more money in their daily lives than in China, they tend to live economically difficult lives in Korea because they have to reduce their living costs. (participant 6) Korea came to Korea to raise money for its two sons’ education because it is freer and easier to make money than Vietnam. Prices in Vietnam have risen more than before, and private education costs are as high as in Korea. That’s why Vietnamese people are coming to Korea. Making money in Korea is much better than making money in Vietnam. That’s why I’m here. (participant 8)
It was found that immigrant women lived in Korea and experienced institutional discrimination or interpersonal alienation. They especially experienced the tendency and cultural characteristics of Koreans who care about their age in the workplace, and some participants were struggling with the situation where they were alienated.
In Korea, people care a lot about their age. It seems like you’re trying to decide on a relationship by asking your age all of a sudden even though you’re doing a small job. To be honest, I think it depends on the position you work for rather than your age. Anyway, I was a little older at first, so I benefited from this culture (participant 2) I think Koreans ignore Filipinos. When I buy things at the store, I speak informally, and even when I talk to Korean people, they keep a distance. So I was a little lonely. But now I feel a little better after seeing you often. Of course, I am indeed more lonely in Korea now than when I was in the Philippines. (participant 9)